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As a parent, you know your child better than anyone. If you’ve started to notice differences in how your preschooler communicates, plays, or reacts to the world around them, you might be wondering: Could my child be autistic?
Firstly, take a deep breath. Wanting answers is natural, and seeking an autism assessment is a positive step towards understanding and supporting your child’s unique needs. This guide will help you recognise some common signs of autism in young children and explain why early assessment matters.
Early identification of autism can make a big difference. It opens the door to tailored support, helping your child thrive at home, in nursery, and beyond.
The earlier you understand their needs, the sooner you can access strategies and resources that work for them.
Every child is different, but here are some common traits parents often notice:
– Delayed speech development – By age 2, your child may use fewer than 10 words.
– Loss of speech skills – They might stop using words they previously knew for three months or more.
– Unusual speech patterns – Repeating words or phrases (echolalia), speaking in a flat tone, or referring to themselves by name instead of “I”.
– Limited conversation – Talking mainly to ask for things rather than chatting about what’s happening.
– Not answering to their name, even though their hearing is fine.
– Avoiding eye contact or not smiling back.
– Not reacting to facial expressions or emotions.
– Disliking cuddles unless they initiate them.
– Preferring to play alone rather than with other children.
– Finding group activities like birthday parties overwhelming.
– Not sharing excitement about things they enjoy.
– Rarely pointing or using gestures to communicate.
– Avoiding looking where others point.
– Repetitive movements like hand flapping or rocking.
– Playing with toys in the same way repeatedly.
– Strong interest in specific topics or objects.
– Upset by changes in routine.
– Sensitivity to or seeking out sounds, lights, textures, smells, tastes, certain clothing or materials, or other sensory related differences.
If you recognise several of these signs, it doesn’t automatically mean your child is autistic. But it does mean it’s worth seeking advice. We always advise keeping a diary of any signs you experience, for future discussion with your healthcare professionals.
Speak to your GP, health visitor, or nursery staff about your concerns. They can guide you through the next steps, which may include an autism assessment.
Autism Anglia offers a free online screening test to help you decide whether a full autism assessment might be right for your child.
It’s fast, easy to follow and helps the people who we support make informed decisions on their next steps.
Take the free screening test now by clicking the button below and start your journey towards clarity and support.
You’re not alone in this journey. Whether you’re seeking answers for yourself or your child, Autism Anglia is here to support you every step of the way.